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I Am About To Explain To You Dear friend, Before I start talking about you and your search for that perfect man, I want to raise a few questions, and I hope you can answer them as truthfully as you can…
You definitely felt that “connection”, only that he’s just not on the same plane as you are! You are sure that he might be the man of your dreams and that within, you just might get that same feeling that makes you all excited. But it disappoints you that he doesn’t seem to feel the same way. Next question...
It’s really not the disappearing part that’s the worst, but the fact that you were very much aware that it was going to happen. But still, you gave in. And one last one:
I would understand your explanation. You were just trying to really “connect” with him, but for some reason, that makes him want to keep his distance. I can imagine just what your girlfriends would say once they heard your story. It would go something like this: “You know men are just dogs, so why not get over it?” or… “He never did deserve you.” But thing is, he doesn’t even give a damn. Really. Keeping things spinning in your head 24/7 on what might have been must be the worst feeling of all. I know it really bothers you. And I am certain that most of the reasons why you feel so upset is because you feel that somehow, YOU had something to do with what went wrong. You are still trying to figure out what you might have and might have not done, and maybe if you just did it right, he might not have gone away. I hate to say this, but you may be right. You definitely had something to do with the situation. And if only you knew how to handle it well, then I’m sure that you would have ended up much happier. But you might be asking me—“How would I know?” I believe you would have done that certain something, IF you only knew what it was. Here’s where it gets complicated, but I want you to listen, and listen well. Charming THE ONE Involves Strategies, and Certain Secrets... The biggest thing that you probably overlooked is the fact that MEN ARE MUCH MORE COMPLICATED THAN YOU THINK THEY ARE. I know we may be not as fussy, or not as fickle, but we surely have our inner workings, and these are things that just cannot be understood easily, not even if you think you can do it step-by-step. Now don’t get all down on yourself and feel that you will never totally understand men at all, despite what your girlfriends tell you, that he doesn’t deserve you, that he was just another @#$%, or other variations of those feel-good statements. Let me tell you, they don’t comprehend the problem at all in the first place. Ladies in general never really truly understand men. Believe me, your friends are saying all of that because they just want you to get over him. Plus, they’re your friends! I know they mean well, but they are just digging a deeper hole than before by saying all the wrong things. Your friends all hold responsible the poor guy for what happened, instead of making you realize that there are things you could have done to make your man STAY. The hardest part is when you meet the PERFECT MAN, but you just can't get him to stay!! I know meeting men like this does not happen everyday, that’s why you have to know how to say and do the right things in order for him to want to stay. You just can’t lose him and that really good thing you’ve got going on, and it’s a shame to just let go of the great times you’ve had together. Who knows, but this relationship just might be IT—can you even think of losing him, just because you had no idea what to do? I know, I have been telling you some bad news, but the good news is…there’s still good news. You CAN do something to break this cycle of loving and losing. Like, right now. You can FIND him and SNAG him, and learn to know how. But you may ask me why I am so sure about this. Well, first of all, I AM A MAN. I am discussing these things with you coming from my own perspective. Because I know only too well how we guys think. Plus, I have been there. In all those nasty, awkward relationships when in love and dating. I have been called a jerk, a dog, what have you. Just because I left. From what I have experienced, I have learned a lot about love and relationships. And now I am basically sharing what I know with YOU, after years of hearing dating stories gone wrong. For the past few years, I have put together everything I can recall from my experience, and at the same time tried to get more information from ladies, doing my research, and finding out how you view love. And I pretty much found out several important things.
The Top Slip-Ups From what I have gathered, here are the three biggest slip-ups that ladies make as they go about dating, resulting in disappointment and disappearing acts from men. Boo-Boo Number One: Appearing Desperate To A ManI must tell you, there are many more ways that you can set “Warning Bells” inside a man’s head and actually make him think twice about taking that big leap of faith with you. Don’t worry, even ladies with the strongest personalities can actually give off this vibe, which can really decrease the chances of getting a second chance. I will discuss with you some of the things ladies do which basically make you appear desperate and unappealing in our eyes. Have you ever done any of these before? Demeaning your exes. If you have a habit of badmouthing your exes, we see this as something negative on your part. It makes us think that you have some excess baggage that you haven’t really gotten taken care of. So why should we be in a relationship with you? Calling other ladies names. When you are always getting around to labeling other ladies with such demeaning remarks such as “whore”, “bitch”, or “psycho”, it just makes us shake our heads in dismay. I know you can’t help but do this when you see men checking other ladies out, but we can see from that name-calling that you are just hiding your insecurity and just looking for attention. Makes us think, would we really want to be with someone like this? PDA overload! Touching is one thing, but hanging on your man is completely another story. But we may never tell you that you are overdoing the public display of affection. But what really excites men more are those random moments that you show just how sweet you can be. Brace yourselves for the next ones, which may be more subtle, but have the most dangerous effects. You will have to be mindful of showing those potentially harmful signals. First checkout these slip-ups before I get into those details, let’s continue… Boo-Boo Number Two: Being More Affectionate Than ExcitingMost ladies think that guys think about sex all the time. Big mistake! What’s even worse is that they think that they can play to a man’s affectionate urges, and a more exciting connection will automatically follow. Ladies sleep with men because they think that what they have can develop into a courtship. But the important thing that ladies miss is the fact that we are able to separate the affectionate versus the exciting connection. Therefore, the two things are not exactly the same in our head. You would need to have some magical power to be able to sync those two factors for us—and make them work for the relationship. For us guys, there’s more to our dating lives than just sex. If you would only know how to go around and fulfilling both the affectionate and exciting needs at the same time, then we know you’re a keeper! Plus, you will also be able to get the same amount of happiness for yourself. Now, wait one second as I explain this better. Boo-Boo Number Three: Having No Idea How Serious He Is About A RelationshipWhat happens only too often is that ladies decide to build a courtship with a guy, as based with that “connection” that they feel. There’s nothing wrong with pursuing someone based on a connection. But this can be more damaging in the long run. When we are strongly connected to one another, we fail to see reason and we don’t go with our gut. We tend to overlook those warning signs that can have long-term effects. If you seem to be stuck in a courtship that takes a turn for the worse, this is a HUGE red flag and should not be ignored—because it was built solely on the idea of that “LUST” and nothing more. Now, this is really important. You have to learn how to evaluate guys and see the red flags of a potentially awful courtship—and fast! This will help you avoid wasting all your time, energy, and passion on a courtship that could just break your heart in the end. It’s not as hard as it seems, and I will show you how to go about this. Here Are The Ways Wouldn’t it be great to be able to just go beyond all those forgettable dates and just find the right man, the man you have been expecting? Would you like to know more about making a man fall for you because of your intellect and love potential, and not just be wanted for sex alone? Would you like to obtain that certain “advantage” over other ladies, with your ability to keep the perfect guy, even more than those who are more attractive than you? Can you admit to yourself that you are really tired of men who never really make that leap of faith with you? Do you want to break away from the vicious cycle of loving and being left behind? Or have you ever felt that you are never going to be able to meet THE ONE? Would you want to take things to another level with that certain someone you’re with now and be devoted, but don’t know how to go about it? Or do you feel that you’re stuck in a courtship now which seems to be going in circles, just because your guy doesn’t do all the sweet things he used to do for you back when you just started going out? Would you want him to go back to his old loving ways? If you said YES to any of my questions, well you are going to be very excited about this then… I have created something that I can call “an instruction Guide on men” which offers you the basic tricks and tips of getting and holding-on to that man of your dreams. Your “Secret Weapon” My Guide, is called... “Dating Secrets for Ladies”. I think that the key to being successful in your love life starts with understanding how a man’s mind works. If you can master this, then I am certain that you can snag a keeper, FOREVER. In my Guide, I am going to be your Guide every step of the way to get that one great guy and making him stay for the long haul. For your convenience, I have decided to create my Guide in an “electronic” online format, so that you can download it right now and read through just what I’m talking about. I’m really not what you would call an award-winning writer, so I apologize in advance if this Guide does not meet your scholarly standards, as I was more concerned with dealing with practical matters on dating. Men’s Secrets He Wishes You Knew… I’m sure you’ve come across a romantic story about a confident lady meeting her “bad boy”, and “completely changing him”—making him completely fall for her head over heels—to an extent that he wants to live out their lives together eternally? You might be saying that this is the stuff that romance novels are made of, and I’m not that sure if you’re into them—but this stuff comes true in real life too. And I’m not kidding. Guys do COMMIT. And yes, they are looking forward to make that decision to be with someone forever. A man just needs to meet that one girl who’s going to make him feel this way. But you may be asking me how such a thing can happen. How can a lady make a man feel that she’s the one for keeps? To be honest, well, us guys don’t really think about this much. And even if we do, we can’t really tell you how to do it for us. We just want you to make it happen—much as you do. Trust me, your man will not really be able to give you an idea how you can completely hold him under your spell, but I can tell you he is wishing that you will be able to do everything right. Which is the part where I can be of help to you. When I started creating this Guide, my main goal is to really uncover what it takes to catch a great guy and keep him—and how a lady can go about it seamlessly, making it as natural as breathing. With all my years of relating to different men and ladies, I have learned a lot of important things. I talked to ladies who have been able to meet guys who would be considered a “keeper” — men who possess that uncanny combination of attractiveness and success. Before these ladies got to keep their dream guy, I’m sure a lot of ladies had tried before to snag them, to no avail. There are some common traits I have noticed that these kind of ladies share. These ladies seem to all have a way of making the “catch” see you differently and also see you as “his life” and not just yet another lover. They all had this distinctive way of evaluating a man immediately; avoiding wasting time on a man that they know doesn’t deserve them. They even get as far as to make a guy tell you his deepest most trusted secrets without him even realizing it! These ladies also had a great way of managing relationships, resolving issues, and having the “we should talk” which is so different from the usual situation that guys usually dread. They have a way of creating that special bond, “TEAM” that makes men treasure the relationship even more. Why Some Ladies Get To Keep Their Man I may have to spill some “secrets” as a man to you, so that you may understand me better. I have managed to talk to quite a few of these so-called Keepers and got them to spill the secrets as to how they eventually got snagged, and some of them were not even aware of it! Guys have this way of sizing up a lady right away, and years of dating have taught them to veer away from certain types—those who are drama queens in the making, ladies who are clingy and needy, and those who just have that excess emotional baggage we just can’t deal with. Guys have a way of knowing your sensual potential even before the action happens in the bedroom. They also told me about what their ladies had done to make them realize that she is indeed THE ONE, and was going to stay for the rest of their lives. These guys that I am talking about are the types who seem to have a lot going for them, therefore, they had a lot of choices. But they still ended up deciding to stay with that ONE lady, and forgetting about the rest. I got these men to relate to me what these exceptional ladies have done to make them hold on—which is actually the biggest issue for us men, in committing to that certain someone we love with all our hearts. I consider myself lucky in the sense that I have rarely experienced dating drama, but finding that one lady I’d want to keep is another thing altogether. I can only count with a few fingers on my one hand the ladies who have actually made me stay. All the men I have talked with can also relate to this statement. As I was creating this Guide, I have also recalled those one-of-a-kind ladies who have made me feel how love can be really beautiful, which made them stand out from other ladies I have gone out with. I am going to talk about all these things with you here in my Guide. And I won’t skip out on any truths. All I can say is this: Some ladies can keep their men more than other ladies can, because they know how. For some ladies, this comes as a natural skill, but some may actually be able to acquire the same skill as time goes by, by knowing the secrets. These are the secrets contained in my Guide, and I am very excited to tell you everything. This is a very unique Guide, and you will definitely not find another guy telling you as much as I do. I even include video references at the end of every chapter for immediate illustrations and to further your understandings with real world examples. I even go as far as to include homework that you can go out and apply on any man that very day. If I were a lady, this would be the “Holy Grail” I would be interested in having. I would definitely read this all the time to remember all its key lessons. For inside this Guide are the secrets that all men wished ladies knew—and this would surely be empowering for all the ladies who would want to get clued in on what their guys think. Men’s Secrets You’ll Want To Know
When I set out a few years back and began looking into completing this Guide, the number one goal I had in mind, more like a passion of mine, was and still is to make you happy. It doesn’t matter whether you are after just catching a fabulous guy, getting into a real commitment, or just falling in love for the first time—I just want you to find who you are dreaming to meet that will treat you the way you deserve. This Guide will make you know more about how relationships and people in general work and hopefully make you a better person in the process as you will see the world differently from now on in a new perspective with the end goal of course finding and getting your prince charming. It will help you make your dream man realize that you’re the only lady on the planet for him and his search is now over because you can and will give him all he has ever wanted in a life-partner. I will help you to know how to succeed in your current or new relationship by showing you how things are suppose to happen and why, and how to get there as you would expect with no hidden surprises…anymore. Here's To Your New Beginning... Everything that you will come across in this Guide guarantees that you will now move forward in this area of your life and not go in circles anymore because you will now know what to do. Most ladies often end up not knowing how to approach courtships in the slightest and more times than not just end up settling down with the first guy who shows interest, but this doesn’t have to happen, more importantly not to you, no more. But you may ask me—does this work for everyone? Let me be completely honest with you—there is a very good chance IT WON’T. But can I ask you something: What if the things you learn in this Guide give you the opportunity to meet that ONE more guy with a lot of relationship potential, the ONE you have dreamed about? Would you pass it up? What if it shows you how to do something about saving your precious relationship with the love of your life that seems to be on the rocks right now? Would this Guide deserve a good read? In turn, I want you to search deep inside and ask yourself: What happens if this Guide will dramatically increase the chances of you meeting that fantastic guy and making him stay with you forever? What if you can with all certainty discover everything about and grab hold of the right kind of guy and finally find genuine love you truly ought to have? What would that be worth to you? Some people may say a thousand dollars, some even more. But for most people, I know that there’s no price tag attached to this kind of happiness. The promise of having that one meaningful attraction to call your own would definitely be worth what you put in. I am sure that a time will come that you will reminisce on this and be glad that you actually made that jump. One thing’s for certain: A time will come that you will end up meeting that fabulous guy. Maybe this has already happened—maybe you are going out with him right now. But do you know what to do next in any scenario to bring you a long-lasting relationship? How do you intend to take things further into that direction where it’s supposed to go? Or are you just going to pass on this amazing opportunity and wonder what it could of all been like? Are you even ready for the possibility that you might never get to find the perfect man for you and never know how to make your relationships work? Or do you want to do something about it, right here, right now—so that you can move on with this part of your life, and most importantly—enjoy your life together? I leave you with this one final reflection. I have realized one thing after years of learning how people interact and conduct themselves. If you don’t make this determination to do something about the issues you are going through and facing this very moment—most likely you won’t really do something about it, EVER. And in line with that, you will end up being caught in the same vicious cycle when it comes to love. I want as many ladies to get past all these troubles and learn all what I have seen and heard and put into my Guide, which is why I have priced it at a most affordable price of USD$29.99. Just browse over my Guide and give it the one shot over and see what you think. And For Taking A Chance On Me Along with this very special one time offer, I will also be sharing with you one of my audio interviews from my “Expert Interview Series” which I do monthly in CD format. If you are looking for creating change in a particular area of your life, the best way to go about it is to seek help from people who have already established themselves in that field where you crave change. 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